The how of becoming a Medium is provided on this page.
Determine Your Aptitude for Becoming a Psychic Medium:
There are potential ways a person is able to become a psychic medium. The first method is to know what it means to be a psychic medium. Psychic mediums perceive spirits in other dimensions using one or more of the following abilities: Clairvoyance. Clairvoyant mediums can see spirits, auras, objects and places that are not perceptible to others. People who have passed away may appear to them in visions, or they may be able to vividly sense a place to which they have never been. Psychic mediums see these visions with their third eye, located between the two physical eyes. Everyone has a third eye, but the average person's is closed or too weak to use. Clairaudience. Clairaudient mediums can hear messages from the "other side," either physically or psychically. They are able to communicate with spirits that are thousands of miles away, or in another dimension altogether. Clairsentience. Clairsentient mediums experience psychic communication through pure knowing. They get surges of knowledge given from the spirits, that they then interpret.
The second method is to determine your level of psychic ability. Are you a natural psychic medium? Some people begin seeing visions, hearing messages, or strongly feeling the presence of spirits from a very young age. They don't necessarily know what they are experiencing until they get older. Natural psychic medium ship is extremely rare. Are you clairvoyant, clairaudient, or clairsentient? Perhaps you feel on the cusp of developing abilities in one of these areas. You're sensitive and receptive to feelings, emotions, and communications from others, and you've had experiences that you consider to be paranormal. Are you interested in becoming a psychic medium, but have never had a paranormal experience? It's possible to work on certain skills and open up the possibility of flexing your psychic muscles. With some practice, you may be able to open and strengthen your third eye.
The third way is to conduct research on psychic medium-ship. One of the best ways to figure out whether you have the capacity to become a psychic medium is to read accounts written by other mediums. Decide whether you recognize yourself in their stories and experiences. Learn as much as you can about the history and practice of psychic medium ship. Read books by psychic mediums, and watch shows that feature them, to get a sense of the paths psychic mediums have taken. Talk to a psychic medium about his or her experiences. Psychic fairs are good places to meet mediums. Beware people purporting to be psychic mediums who may not be the real deal
Develop Your Psychic Abilities:
First way to do this is to heighten your awareness. Psychic medium ship is about being open to communication from the "other side." Try the following methods for raising your awareness and opening your third eye: Pay attention to your intuition. Don't dismiss your dreams. Acknowledge the odd feelings and urges you feel. Recognize the various energies that affect you throughout the day. Spend quiet time by yourself every morning. After you wake in the morning, before starting your day, spend time allowing thoughts and emotions to wash over you. Don't control what comes; welcome and absorb it. Open your mind to the possibility of receiving communications from energies generated outside yourself. Try free writing. Write what comes to your mind the moment it arrives. Don't judge the words, and avoid editing them. Read back over what you wrote a few hours later. The messages you receive from other beings won't always be clear, but writing them down may help you find patterns.
The Second way is trying to actively communicating with spirits. A good way to start is by finding a medium ship circle, a group of mediums who gather to receive messages from the other side. This will give you an introduction to the setting that should be arranged for effective communication. Once you're comfortable with the process, try it on your own, or invite other mediums to join you. Set up a room in a quiet part of your house. Dim or turn off the lights. A few candles may help create a spiritual setting. Say a prayer or chant to ready the space for communication and call on spirits to join the circle. Recognize the presence of the spirit or spirits that join you. Allow yourself to receive images, words, feelings, smells - whatever the spirits wish to communicate. Ask the spirit to identify itself. When you receive an answer, confirm it out loud. Continue communicating with the spirit by asking questions and receiving answers. Know that at this early stage you will not be able to control the effect the communication has on you. You may feel frightened, or you may experience pain. As you develop your skills as a medium, you'll be better able to control the way you communicate with the other side.
The final way is to consider yourself to starting a business as a psychic medium. It is possible to have a very successful career as a psychic medium once you're confident in your abilities. Build a website to advertise your services. Set up a room in your house or rent a space to be used for the purpose of holding sessions with clients.
Be sure to incorporate your small business according to the laws where you live.
Talk to other mediums about the business models that have worked for them, including how much they charge for each reading.